“We have to allow
ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who
really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits
of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that
time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the
sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It’s time to put an end to
this. It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved.” ~ C. JoyBell C.; American philosopher and inspirational writer.
When it comes to true love there must be respect, because true love is
indeed a constant celebration of respect and deep connection; and so,
respect means freedom to be who you are without being bullied or judged,
it means you respect the other person and are yourself respected for
how you think and feel. That is self-love.
How you think and feel must be respected, even if the other person does not agree with you. You either respect each other or there is no love, and if there is no love to celebrate, then, what is the point of staying in a relationship with no love…?? All relationships should be for your development.
One must develop patience and
understanding in any relationship, but not allow oneself to be put down
or treated badly; for it is all about self-love all the time, it is
about your own individual development.
To
have self-love, you cannot live in fear of being alone, of ending the
relationship and starting a new life where you can be yourself;
self-love is freedom to be yourself, it is knowing that you are already
whole and that people have nothing to do with how you love yourself.
So, in order to recognize true love in
another there must be mutual respect, which is freedom to be yourself
and not his/her slave. And self-love is not fearing change, such is
change to fix your life and get rid of relationships that do not serve
you.
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