“No one knows your
situation better than you. Do what’s best for you. If they can’t love
you through it, then they weren’t meant to be in your life.” ~ Tony Gaskins; American motivational speaker, author and life coach.
“Look inside yourself for the answers, you’re the only one who knows what’s best for you. Everybody else is only guessing.” ~ Charles De Lint; Canadian short story writer, novelist, poet, and lyricist.
Knowledge of self, daily reflection, routine meditation into
yourself, is what one needs in order to embrace complete happiness and
in order to be content with whatever you do in life.
This is self-love: when you only follow your inner self and take care of that inner self because you realize that you are the most important person you have to worry about, your mental elevation and emotional understanding; and so, from this process of self-love you can now expand love onto others.
But this paramount process of
self-love gets interrupted and badly tainted if you allow your focus to
be on others, on others’ expectations for you, on others’ opinions and
wishes for you, etc. etc.
No
one, not even your loved ones, can tell you exactly what is best for
you if you are mature enough to see it for yourself, if you are mature
enough to know where you are going and enjoy the path you walk;
therefore, it is of the ego to feel victim of the opinions, wishes,
expectations of other people, for you must see the reality, that you are
the god of your own life, that you are the creator of your own life.
Never allow guilt, shame, fear,
to consume your rationale and affect your emotional understanding of
yourself, because you are here on this earth to develop yourself, not to
take care of others constantly and be the punching bag for their mental
and emotional nonsense.
This
may sound harsh to someone that is not well acquainted with self-love,
but it is the absolute truth to me; and I live my life based on it.
You are the only one who knows your
innermost desires and strengths, so do not let any tricks from your ego
or from the ego of others to manipulate you into being less and staying
less than what you are and can accomplish.
Do not give in to stress and frustration, but raise above it.
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